Saturday, October 28, 2017

Back Home Again ( Part 5 )






Back Home Again ( Part 5 )
7415 Ottawa Ave

Polio Strikes


June 21st 1994

I’m at 7415 Ottawa Ave. This is the third home we’ve ever lived in. As matter of fact, this is the first single-family house we had. The other house on Devon Ave was a duplex. So this is our first single family home. I live here from the age of 4 until I was 7 years old.



All this was all prairie around here, especially in the back of the house. Now it’s nothing but homes here but back then it was nothing but prairie. You could just go for what seemed like forever in the back there and play. One time Jimmy my cousin came over. We were out in the fields in the back and there was this sewer cover back there and we wanted to see what was in it. So I lifted it up and he was going to get his fingers underneath it so he could help lift it up. And all of a sudden I couldn’t hold it anymore and the sewer cover came down on his fingers and he got caught and he was screaming and I couldn’t lift it up anymore. So I came running back and got Mom and Aunt Marie and they came running back into the field and got his fingers out. I almost cut off his fingers. Well it wasn’t all my fault, it was his too.

 Michael lived next door to us. He was a pretty nice guy. He was my friend. The only thing I can remember about him, he had the biggest comic book collection I ever saw in my life. I saw him later on when I was in my 20's but I don’t know where he is now though. His mom died since I’ve seen him.  Then next door there used to be couple and they had a kid, a brand new baby.  It was a day just like today, nice and sunny and bright and warm. And they put the crib out in front and the baby was taking a nap in the crib. They put it on its back when he was taking a nap and the baby spit up a little bit and it came down and he started choking on its own spit or vomit or whatever you want to call it and the poor baby died. My Mom came running over because the woman next door was hysteric. My Mom tried to save the baby by giving mouth-to-mouth but couldn’t. That was a tragedy.                                               

  My Dad had fallen down the stairs here. I guess they were having a party one night and he fell down the stairs and he broke his leg. He couldn’t stand the cast after a while so he got drunk and ripped it off. He was sorry he did.

 One time it was Christmas and my Mom had set up my train around the Christmas tree.  I was standing over the train tracks pretending I was a bridge and let the train go between my legs. And all of a sudden as soon as the train got right underneath my legs, I guess it shorted out or something and sparks went flying everywhere. I thought I was gonna die, I couldn’t believe it. That was the last time we ever did that. My Mom and dad buy me my first dog that they found. It was a Cocker spaniel, a black one, all black and we called it “Inky.” She was the greatest dog. She was my best friend. We had her for a long time. I really liked that dog.

  As it turns out when we did sell this house, we sold it to a couple named the Millers They had two sons and we went on our merry way to our other home. Then when we get to be teenagers and in our twenties, Jeanne meets this guy named Rick Miller and they start dating. He takes her home to meet his Mom and Dad and as Jeanne describes it. They pull into this neighborhood and Jeanne says, “This neighborhood is familiar, I used to live around here.” And they pull up in front of the house and they start walking to Rick’s house and she says, “Is this where you live?” And Rick says, “Yeah.” and she says, “This is the same house I used to live in.” That was really strange. The same people that bought the house from us still lived there all this time. And what are the odds that my sister would end of meeting one of their sons. Of course they ended up getting married and having 4 children of their own.

 I remember one time my cousin Jimmy came over. We used to get in a lot of trouble. I think Aunt Marie decided not to get us together anymore but anyway he came over one time and I had this pet turtle. You know the kind you buy in the Dime store? And Jimmy says, “Let me bring him home.” I said. “No.” He finally talked me into it and Jimmy put him in his pocket. The next time I saw him, I asked him for my turtle back, he said, “oh, I forgot, I left him in my pants pocket and he died.” Oh, the bum! So don’t ever give any of your things to anybody, guys.

  I ran away from home, I don’t know what I did but I ran away. And I had this great big shopping bag and inside it, I put one piece of boloney and one slice of bread and I was going to run away forever. I got 2 blocks away and I eat the boloney and the bread. I got hungry so I came back home.  

This is where I first went to school over at St Juliana’s in first grade. I didn’t want to go to school. I remember my Mom taking me. And I was crying. I didn’t want to go. That was to foreign to me, to strange. I didn’t like it. Well, I met a girl there. I wish I could remember her name though. She was the prettiest girl and I used to walk her home. I lived further then she did so I used to walk her to her house and she really liked me a lot. I can’t remember her name though. And then one day I was walking home from school and I was so tied I could just barely make it home. As soon as I got home I went to bed. I guess I was really sick. And my Mom took me to the doctor’s. They found out I had Polio. So they put me in the hospital. I had Bulbar Polio, worst kind you can get. I almost died from that. They almost put me in one of those Iron Lungs machines that help you breathe. I used to call them “tin cans.” I guess I really got sick and my Dad told me later on, he says, he had collapsed on the hood of the car after he came out from seeing me and started crying to my Mom, “He’s gonna die, he’s gonna die.” My Mom had some Holy Water that one of the nuns from St Juliana’s gave her. Some Holy Water from Lourdes, you know France?  And she brought it up and she poured this Holy Water from Lourdes on me. And son-of-a-gun if I didn’t start getting better. It was like a miracle. I don’t know if that’s what it was or caused it or what but that’s what happened. So I got over that.



Cook County Hospital Where I Had Polio. I was in one of the rooms in the front of the building.

  This is the report from the Edison Parker, Edison Park Newspaper Sept 26, 1951. Report first Edison Park polio cases. Boy 6, girl 14 both in hospital. Edison Parks first cases of Infantile Paralysis cases of the year were report last week, as two youngsters, a 6-year-old boy and a 14-year-old girl. Both were stricken with dangerous Bulbar Polio. The Children are Billy Kaufman 6 of 7415 N. Ottawa and Jacquelyn Dee 14 of 7025 N Overhill. After becoming ill Monday September 17th. Jacquelyn Dee, daughter of Mr & Mrs Eugene Dee, was taken Wednesday to Municipal Contagious Disease Hospital were her condition still is report as critical. Doctors said the girl is still running a temperature and is very weak and is receiving oxygen thru the nose. Jacquelyn a student at St Patrick Academy has an older sister 18 and a younger brother 6.  6-year-old Billy Kaufman son of Mr & Mrs Robert J Kaufman became ill last Wednesday and was hospitalized the following day at the Cook County Contagious Disease Hospital. His condition still is critical doctors reported but has shown improvement. Billy is no longer in oxygen although he is still running a temperature and is paralyzed in the throat and internally. Mr and Mrs Kaufman have a younger daughter Jeanne 4.

  This is a follow up article in the Edison paper.) 3 Polio cases reported in Edison. Jacquelyn Dee 14 of 7025 N Overhill, Edison Park’s first Polio victim was still in critical condition following an emergency tracheotomy at Municipal Contagious Disease Hospital Wednesday. Also in critical condition following polio attacks are Billy Kaufman 6, 7415 N. Ottawa and Jeanne Knorst 13 6950 N Overhill. All 3 victims were suffering from the Bulbar type of Polio. After becoming ill on Sept 17th, Jacquelyn was taken to the Municipal Hospital Wednesday were doctors described her condition as very critical. It is hoped Thursday’s operation will help her for her fight for her life. 6-year-old Billy Kaufman became ill last Wednesday and was hospitalized the following day at Cook County Contagious Disease Hospital. Doctors this week reported Billy’s condition improved. His fever dropped Sunday and is now able to eat some soft food. Jeanne Knorst was stricken Tuesday and was removed to Municipal Contagious Disease Hospital. Her condition is report as serious.

  This is a follow up article number 3.) Edison polio victims reportedly improved. All three make gains during week. The condition of Edison Park’s three young polio victims showed marked improvement this week. According to word received from the parents of the patients, fevers in each case have subsided and all appears to be on the road to recovery. Edison’s first victim Jacquelyn Dee 14, 7025 N Overhill was rushed to Municipal Contagious Disease Hospital September 19th is now permitted to be out of her iron lung for two 50 minutes periods daily. A victim of both Bulbar and spinal polio, the extent of Jacquelyn’s paralysis is not yet known.  Billy Kaufman 6, 7415 N. Ottawa, having been released from Cook County Contagious Hospital Saturday, was taken to St Francis Hospital this week when his parents noticed muscular spasms in parts of his body. He will remain one month for therapeutic treatments. 13 year old Jeanne Knorst, 6950 N Overhill ave was reported as improving with still no evidence of paralysis. Jeanne is also at the Municipal Contagious Disease Hospital. No release date has been given.

Some of my memories of that time in the hospital with Polio; When my parents brought me to the hospital, they put me in this big ward with a lot of beds on one side and a whole lot of Iron lungs on the other side of the room.  This was the first time I had ever been to a hospital. I was scared and when my Mom and Dad went to leave that first day, I cried. I didn’t want them to go. This would be the first time I would be alone in my whole life. Kind of like it is with me now.
  The nurses were very friendly, in fact I saw the prettiest nurse I ever saw in my life. I only saw her twice but I will never forget her. Maybe that’s why I have a thing for pretty nurses these days. The next thing I knew, I was put in a small room with three other kids. 


                                     They Put Me Back In a Crib

The nurse put me in diapers and then put me in this metal crib with clear plastic all around the top and sides of the crib. It was in an oxygen tent.


And I had To Wear Diapers All Over Again

I remember saying to my mom that I didn’t want to wear diapers. She asked the nurse about it and the nurse said that I had to wear diapers. Mom tried to explain to me that since I was sick that I had to wear them. It felt funny going in a diaper but I was locked in crib, there was nothing I could do about it. The nurses kept changing me and after a while I got used to it.

My parents visited me every day and when I started to feel better, I asked my Mom if she could bring me a strawberry Sunday. I wasn’t supposed to have it but the next night my parents snuck a strawberry Sunday up to me. Did that ever taste great. It’s funny how certain things stick out in your mind. I do remember this other kid across the room from me. He kept turning his light on and off all night one night. I couldn’t stand that.


The Whirlpool

  I finally got back home and I started having problems right away. So they put me back in a different hospital for a month. The only thing I remember about that hospital was the whirlpool that I would have to be put in every day. It was called the Hubbard Whirlpool Tank. The nurse would take me behind some curtains and take my clothes off. Then she started putting a diaper on me. I said to the nurse, I don’t want to wear a diaper. The nurse told me that everybody had to wear one before they put you in the whirlpool. After I got better and came home, I never wet the bed or had any other wetting problems while I was growing up as a kid.
 
 I finally got back home. Well, I was out of school quite a while but I got back to school and I graduated from 1st grade. But later on I’ll pay for it.

This house didn’t give me as good of a memory as the last house, maybe because I had Polio for one thing. That didn’t help things. But I still had Mom and I had my dog and Jeanne too. She was still pretty young yet. Let’s see, I was like 5, she’d be only be 3. So I really couldn’t play with her. So I played with the other little kids on the block. Michael next door, I was involved with him. I guess Jeanne was inside just laying in her crib and sucking on her bottle or whatever


                                                                                                                                              
Well, I was asking my sister if see had any memories of Ottawa, so I put them down on tape and let’s hear what she has to say.

 MY SISTER TALKING;

“We’re talking about Ottawa. Um, it’s real vague but I remember we shared that one little room together .And I remember where our beds were and I remember were the dresser was. The dresser was next to the window on the opposite side of the room and you and I had a pack of matches. And we were having a ball lightin’ em. And I kept saying, “Let me try it, Let me try it. You were big brother so you really didn’t want me to do it, but we hear Ma coming in and we had the door shut. I just remember...I don’t know who had the matches at the time but we just threw everything in the drawer and we shut the drawer. And I don’t remember anything after that except that years later I remember Mom saying that we started a fire and the fire department came and everything. We burned clothes and it was really messy.”
   “I remember you and I driving our tricycles like crazy around the posts down in the basement. It was all concrete, it wasn’t tiled and paneled and stuff like that like is today. I do remember our tricycles. That was some of my favorites things to do was to go down in the basement and chase you around the posts on the tricycle.”
  “And I remember Dad got a sickle. I’m not sure why he got it. Except there was a lot of prairie and you and I would go out and walk real deep into the prairie and nobody would know where we were and we would sickle down a whole area of weeds so we could have a fort and we’d bring a blanket because the weeds went very comfortable when they were sickled down. There was one kind of weed like cotton. It was almost like, the inside was almost like a filter on a cigarette but it would burn and we’d try and smoke them. We would light weeds and pretend they were cigarettes.” 

  “You know what else happened at that house to me? Um, I just vaguely remember doing this but I was about...I was about only 3, 2 or 3 years old and I decided, I don’t think I decided to leave home but I started walking. As I started walking, I started talking my clothes off. I don’t actually remember doing it but to this day, you know when we go to visit my mother in-law over there. I remember the exact house. It’s so eerie. It really wasn’t that far away from our house. It was only about 4 blocks away. But I remember that house because those were the bad people because they turned me in. And um, I just remember something happened at that house. And they called my Mom and I ended up having to go back there with her, I don’t know. I don’t really remember except Mom said that I started taking off all my clothes. She realized I was gone and they started to look for me and they called the police. They found a sock; you know a shoe and a sock and then the shorts and then the shirt. I left a whole trail of clothes as I went along. And I guess the milkman finally stopped me and I think those people in that house had something to do with calling the police.”

 “The only other thing I really vividly remember at that house, like when I said I had chicken pocks. Mom would only let me go out on the front steps. I couldn’t go down the steps. I could only be on that front stoop. I must have colored a hundred coloring books during the week I had chicken pocks. But it was real warm out. And Cathy would come over and she would have to stay away when we talked. Cathy was my best friend. She lived next door. They moved after... she had a little baby sister and her mom had her out in a buggy one day and she died of SIDS. I remember the commotion. I didn’t understand the commotion but I remember all the commotion that day. Everybody was crying and screaming and going to the cradle trying to get the baby breathing. It was awful. Cathy and her family got scared after that and they just moved. And on the other side of us were the Turmott’s I remember them because we got Inky in that house and remember the day we got Inky. She was a just a little puppy running around the front lawn just yipping and we were chasing her and Mrs Trumott was out there. Later on when I married Rick, Mrs Turmott use to say all the time, I’ll never forget when you were a little girl chasing that little puppy dog around the front yard.”
   “We had cinder allies at that house. Do you remember the cinder allies?” “Yeah, because it hurt your feet.” “Not only hurt our feet but I used to always have a picture that if I was bad at Christmas that was the cinder that would go in my stocking.”

Well that’s all for this house I guess. So we’ll go on to the next one next Saturday.


Saturday, October 21, 2017

Back Home Again ( Part 3 and Part 4 )





                                           Back Home Again (part 3)
                                                    5546 McVickers


A Visit to my other Grandmother’s House




This is my favorite picture of my Mom holding me up. It was taken in 1945. Oh, to be able to start over again.




This is the same view taken 48 years later.


June 10th 1994

I stopped off at 5546 N, McVickers, Nana and Papa’s house. That’s my grandparents. They were living here when I was first born on Mason so I thought I would stop by. This is where that picture was taken with my Mom when I was…she was holding me up. So I thought I would stop by and take a look at it.
                                                                              


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Back Home Again ( Part 4 )
7516 W. Devon


Big Boys Don’t Wear Rubber Pants


June 10th 1994

   I’m at 7516 W. Devon. This is the second place I lived. And I was thirteen months and I lived here until I was 4 years old. I remember a lot more here. I think this is the happiest place I lived, with all the love and caring my mom gave to me. I had some good memories here.
 
I can still picture my Mom’s face looking down at me while she changed my diaper. Mom was always smiling and laughing at me. What a great memory I have of her back then. I can picture her taking off my rubber baby pants and unpinning my wet diaper. She would get a new one and take my two little feet and lift me up, sliding it underneath me. She’d clean me off and sprinkle Johnson’s Baby Powder all over my little penis and my bottom. Even today, the smell of baby powder sends me back in time to those wonderful days. Then mom would pull my diaper up between my legs and pin each side. She would get a pair of clean rubber baby pants and put my two feet in the openings and slide those soft smooth rubber baby pants down my legs. Mom would have to stand me up and finish pulling them up around my waist until they fit snug against my diaper. Then she would give me a love pat on the bottom of my rubber baby pants and say, “There, you’re all done.” 


    One day my aunt came over. My mom was pregnant again and my aunt said that she should take me out of diapers. “You don’t want to have two babies in diapers?” Mom thought I wasn’t ready yet. I had just turned two years old. But my aunt had convinced her. The next thing I remember I was standing out on the front steps wearing these brown corduroy pants. All of a sudden I could feel something running down my legs. I had wet my pants. I started crying and mom came and got me. She told my aunt that maybe I took him out of diapers to soon. My aunt said, “No you didn’t,” anyway I never did get my diapers back.



 I was playing and mom had left the basement door open. She was doing the laundry and I went down to explore. At the bottom of the stairs, I came across a box full of my baby clothes. I started looking through them and suddenly I found my rubber baby pants. I took them out of the box and took my pants off. I wanted my rubber baby pants back again. So I put them on the best I could. I didn’t have any diapers but I wouldn’t know how put them on even if I had them. Mom came down the stairs looking for me. She found me standing there in my top and rubber pants. She said, “What have you got on?” She looked at me and said, “Big boys don’t wear rubber pants,” and took them off of me. I started crying that I wanted them. I guess I put up a pretty big fuss about them because my dad reminded me of that incident later on in my life when I was married. I tried to look through that same box again but mom must have thrown them away. I couldn’t find them. And that was the end of my rubber pants.
         
  Around that same time, my mom and dad were getting ready to go out for the evening. I wandered into their bedroom to see what was going on. My mom was standing there doing something and I walked up to her and put my little 2-year-old arm around her. My arm only reached around her bottom. I felt her and said, “Mommy your wearing rubber pants. I want to wear rubber pants too.” She said, “That’s my girdle,” and took me out of her room and closed the door.       

 I remember she used to take me for a walk in the stroller to go down the street and around the corner and in the back there was a lot of prairie back here. A lot of woods and trees and it was nice, I liked that, I remember that. I remember the trees and how peaceful it was back here.

  I remember I’d wake up in the morning and wait for Mom to come in my room and I’d stand up in my crib and just wait for her to come in and she’d come in and I used to be so happy to see her. I used to jump up and down I remember that. And she’d smile and I’d smile. That was great. After she changed me, I always knew what was next. Mom brought me down into the kitchen and put me into the high chair. I had the regular kind of baby cereal but it was the fruit that came out of the jars that I remember the best. My favorite was fruit desert with tapioca. I even bought a couple of jars while I was doing this part of my memoir just to see if it tasted the same. It was just as good as I remembered. 

  One time she was tacking down carpeting in the bedroom upstairs. And I came in and I saw this little bolt and picked it up and put it in my mouth and swallowed it and my Mom thought that I swallowed one of the tacks. So she rushed me to the hospital and they took x-rays and they find out it’s just a little bolt. And I finally pooped it out a couple of days later. Everything was ok. My Mom was really upset. They thought I would have to have an operation and everything.  I still have that little bolt that my mother saved in my baby book.





  I’m looking at the steps now, outside. I remember one night, Mom and Dad and me just sat on the steps and looked up at the stars and there wasn’t all this traffic all the time. And across the street there were no houses. It was just a great big long field, a great big prairie.

  Is this ever cool, I took the car and I went the way I thought my Mom used to push me in the carriage to the train station. The train station is way in the back. And I take the streets and all of a sudden I remember EVERYTHING. There’s a park here and I look in the back and I recognize the street and then I turn the corner around by the park here and THERE’S THE TRAIN. But in those days, they had the great big coal trains and they’d bellow out this great big black smoke and just go CHA-CHUM, CHA-CHUM and you could hear it. Now they got the crummy diesels. And you could smell the smoke from the trains, I remember that. Oh, this is neat!


I remember my Mom pushing me in the stroller down this side walk past the park. After you make a right turn at the corner, you can see the train tracks. That was so cool to see the big old trains going by belching out big black clouds of smoke.


 I didn’t see too much of my Dad in this house. In fact the first house he was in the service. He was over in the Pacific in the Philippines during World War II. So on Mason ave, I never saw my Dad until I guess I was a year old. And when he came home, that’s when we moved over here to Devon ave. Even on Devon ave, I really didn’t see him that much. I just remember every once in a while I’d see him. He was always gone, working I guess or whatever. So I guess that’s why I’m close to my Mom cause I was around her all the time. During this time, Jeanne was born, that’s my sister and I don’t remember too much about her either, except I remember saying, “When is she going to grow up so I can play with her.” So I guess my Mom was....when she was born my Mom started taking care of her.

 This house was interesting. After I took a look at the house and followed the way that my Mom would push me past the park and to see the train and just all the memories of love and everything. If I had a choice of staying any were in time, I’d want to stay in this time, at this place, it was the happiest for me. I’m recording this on June 10th 1994, I’m 48 years old now. I’ve only come to the second house and I don’t know if I want to go any further then this because as I get older, the memories get worse. Well, around 11 or 12 they get worse. So, my next house is OK but I really like this one the best.

 (On my recording, I have Olivia Newton John singing out my memories of this house with the song, “When you Wish Upon a Star”) 

Saturday, October 14, 2017

Back Home Again (Part 2 )

 
 Back Home Again (Part 2.)

( 1st Home on Mason Ave)



June 10th 1994

I’m at my first house on Mason ave. This is the house I was born in. Don’t remember too much. I know I was born here and stayed here for 13 months. I do remember one incident, I don’t know how old I was but I remember Mom, aunt Marie and everybody bringing me into the bathroom and giving me a bath in one of those bathinettes. That’s the only thing I can re....Oh one other thing. They had this basket, a baby basket where you take a nap in it and I remember they used to put me this thing and I couldn’t see out of the sides. When I was laying in the bottom of it, I couldn’t see anybody. I didn’t like that at all, I remember that. Other then that, I don’t remember to much at my first house.

Later on, about 13 years from now , my mom will tell me a story of how grandpa sold a house. They used to build houses and he sold a house on the weekend and the guy paid cash for it. He used his gold coin collection to pay for it. The banks were closed on the weekends, so he brought the gold home and hid it in the house and when the bank opened on the week day, he forgot where he hid it and as far as anybody knows the gold is still hidden in the house someplace. That’s the story my Mom gave me. Mom said it’s buried in the back yard, I asked uncle Bill, he said it’s behind the fireplace in the basement. Mom told me that Aunt Marie thought it was in the attic. I have a feeling my Mom is right. But that’s the story. Mom said that there was $20,000 in gold coins. So you can imagine what it’s worth today. Well, that about all I can remember at this house.

Mason Ave, The house I was born in. 

Mason Ave, The house I was born in.

Phillippines
Aug 29th, 1945

Hello Billy

Welcome to our happy little family and to this great big world, I haven’t met you outside of a few kicks you gave me before you entered this world but I got a picture of you today and you’re quite a little guy. I’m proud of you. As your mother had probably told you, I’m in the army now but it won’t be long until I get home and concentrate on being a good father to you. You will never remember it but you will have served a few months in the army yourself and I hope that is all you will ever serve. That is what all these men fought and died for, was to make your life and other little guys like you, have a better place to live in.

It’s all over now, so it’s up to you to make it stay good when you grow up. You have a good start in live life except for having me for an old man. But with the mother and the grandparents you should be able to overcome that handicap. I promise to do everything I can to be good father to you. So keep this letter. If I ever go astray, it’s sort of a contract. Until we meet Billy, take care of your mother for us and give her a big kiss for me, will you?
Goodnight Billy
Your Dad 

P.S. I hope you like me.
“Yeah Dad, I certainly did like you.”

My Dad wrote me this letter while he was in the Phillippines. He hadn't seen me yet. 

My Dad wrote me this letter while he was in the Philippines. He hadn't seen me yet.

Wednesday, October 11, 2017

Back Home Again (Part 1)






The Beginning of My Life
What a great idea



1995

This evening I came across my baby book I have saved all these years and found some wonderful pictures of my mom and myself. My imagination was boundless as I started thinking back to my childhood and all the loving memories. I wanted to relive those times.

Dan Briel, an old real estate manager of mine shared his idea with me some time back about putting down on tape his life story. “What a great idea,” I said as it popped into my mind, to relive my childhood on tape.

I plan to start recording my life today. I’m going out and stopping in front of every home I have ever lived in. That way I will be able to remember more details. 


 
















                                                The Beginning of My Life


My mother (Eleanor) had a sister (Marie) and they were both pregnant at the same time. It starts off with a letter exactly as my Grandmother wrote it, to my Dad in the Philippines during World War II.


Everybody was pregnant at the same time. Here from left to right are Dorthey Gallager(My Aunt) Marie Pisors (my Mom's sister) Eleanor Kaufman (That's my Mom and I'm inside of her there somewhere) and then Helen McCabe Stanger. I don't know who she is pregnant with but this picture was taken in 1945.Everybody was pregnant at the same time. Here from left to right are Dorthey Gallager(My Aunt) Marie Pisors (my Mom's sister) Eleanor Kaufman (That's my Mom and I'm inside of her there somewhere) and then Helen McCabe Stanger. I don't know who she is pregnant with but this picture was taken in 1945.





Chicago Illinois
Aug 10th 1945


Dear Bob:

I am writing you this letter while listening to the radio reports, that are coming from all over the world, the news of Japans offer to surrender if we will recognize the sovereignty of the Emperor. If that is all they want there seems little to argue about so we surely can expect peace within a short time. Gee won’t that be something and then you can come home to that little family of yours. And is it some family. Eleanor’s eye’s just shine with the thrill of motherhood and yesterday when I was there with Marie I went in to her room and she was nursing the baby and it sure looked wonderful to see them. El says throw away the bottles(I don’t need them) and I certainly hope she is right as it will be so much better for the baby if she can nurse him for awhile.

We sure had some excitement around here this last week. Both girls were getting so tired of waiting and the time seemed to drag along so for them. Last Saturday night Dad took us all to the show to see Barbary Coast. It was a beautiful technicolor picture and we enjoyed it immensely. We got home about 11:30 o’clock and the girls wanted to know what else they could do to hurry things along, Marie was going to take here second dose of castor oil in three days to start things moving. Eleanor had taken one on the previous Monday and the Doctor had told her to follow it up on Thursday if nothing happened. Eleanor was so determined that she was going to help nature all she could ( the real reason was that Dr Wexler was leaving on his vacation on Monday and she wanted things over by then) so without telling us she had gone upstairs and taken another dose ( 2oz at a time ). Well then we decided we would go for a walk, it was around midnight then so the three of us Marie Eleanor and I went on a hike, up Elston Avenue, over to Milwaukee on Peterson, up to Miami back across Elston Ave and around to Marmora and back home again. Seemed as though we must have walked two miles in all. Back home we all retired for the night but around 2:30 Eleanor called that the water had broken and she was having regular pains and they were about two minutes apart. Of Course we all got excited and I wanted her to put on a robe over her gown but nothing doing she was going to be fully dressed and have her hair combed before she left. I am going to try to describe just what happened from there on as I know you are wondering just what happened and I sure am sorry that you could not have been with her. She was a regular little brick and was so determined that she was going through without hollering too much.

Swedish Covenant Hospital in Chicago were I was born.Swedish Covenant Hospital in Chicago were I was born.


We checked in at the hospital at 3:05 on the morning of August the Fifth, 1945. Dad had driven Eleanor and I over but hurried back to be with Marie because with all the excitement she felt pains coming on too. A nurse came down and took Eleanor up stairs to the labor room while I waited down at the office to register her. ( I was so excited I couldn’t even remember what year she was born in or how old she was. I just wanted to get up stairs in a hurry. On getting upstairs I found that they had taken El into the labor room and the nurse said she would call me as soon as possible. Around four o’clock the nurse said I could go in and sit with Eleanor. She was in great pain. they were coming about every minute. One would hardly leave when another one would come. The nurse came in every half hour to examine her and said she was doing nicely, that at 5 o’clock she was more then half open and that the baby would be born at about 7 o’clock. (We had called Dr Wexler and he said he would be there just as soon as the nurse called him from the hospital.) Eleanor just lay there from then on moving her head from side to side she kept saying OH----Oh-----Oh. About this time it began to rain real hard outside and El and I watched the day break. We could hardly see the roofs across the street at first and finally they began to emerge out of the rain and the darkness. In between the pains she would smile. Suppose that was the anticipation of the coming arrival. The nurse had told Eleanor the last time she examined her that everything was going fine and then the next time she came something had happened and although she still had the pains they were not doing any good. She called the house physician around seven o’clock and he came in and examined her and then sent for Dr Wexler. At 7:45 Sunday morning they took her into the delivery room and from then on I sure sweated it out. I was alone and could not go down stairs to telephone for fear they would call me. Wexler arrived just before 8 o’clock and came out and talked to me after seeing Eleanor. He said she was OK but things just had slowed up and we would have to wait for nature to take it’s course. Around about that time Dr went to make his room calls and he was back about 9 o’clock again. Still nothing. At 10 o’clock he called in another Doctor–Dr Timmerman who Dr had said was a great obstetrician & the one who will take care of Marie if she does not deliver before Dr Wexler leaves tomorrow.
(As it happened)
Andrew arrived to be with me and am I glad to have someone with me. Seems good to have someone to talk to although there is a husband here now waiting for his wife and I have been talking to him for the past hour or so. Andrew is pacing the floor for you so he can know what it is like now and it will be good practice for him when his arrives. I just talked to the head nurse and she tries to re-assure me saying that the trouble is that they took Eleanor in too soon but I know better I know that something has gone wrong. We are standing in the hall now so we can look into the corridor that leads to the delivery room.

10:20 AM August 5th, 1945

After conferring with Dr Timmerman, Dr Wexler came out to talk to us and he says that they will probably have to help Eleanor a little as things do not seem to be moving as they should. I heard later that they had decided to wait until noon and if something did not happen they would operate. Dr says it will not have to be a cesarean.


12:00 AM


Dr Wexler is back again--- Says we will have to have a little more patience- Says the woman in our family just don’t have their babies easy.

The folks at home are getting worried and are phoning but I have no news for them.

1:30 o’clock

There is quiet a bit of activity in the room. Now another doctor arrives. The nurses are all putting on their masks– Something must be going to happen.
1:45 PM
Dr Wexler is back again and is now putting on his white coat and mask and at 1:50 PM he came out to explain just what they are going to have to do. He tries to explain that the babies head is wedged in and they just cannot turn it--- He says it fits like a piece of a cross word puzzle (of course he uses medical terms but thinks we can understand it easier-- He says the head is just locked in and cannot come out any further. They are going to have to cut in order that the baby may be born. He goes back in and from then on we all stand looking through the glass door wondering just what is happening as we can only see the hallway leading to the delivery room

2:15 PM

Everything is as quiet as can be- You would not know that anyone is in there at all.

3: PM Dr Timmerman comes out and asks for Mrs Kaufman’s mother and said that Dr Wexler wanted him to say that the baby was born and Eleanor is OK. Gee what a relief. I asked what it was and he said gee I don’t remember Oh yes I think it was a boy. He must have been helping Dr as the sweat is dripping from his face and he is wiping off his head and arms as he goes down the hall.

We are still standing in the hall watching as I do not want Andrew to go down to telephone to the folks at home until I am sure just what the baby is. A BOY or A GIRL.


When Dr Wexler comes out he assures us that everything is going to be alright, that Eleanor is OK and that although they had to cut in order to get the baby out she has been all closed up again and that it is a nice neat job. We sure feel a lot better now.

Then the nurse comes out with your SON and is he a bouncing baby boy. His hands are almost as big as a two year olds and his head is exceptionally large. I think he looks like your Dad but they all say he is just like you. We even compared his feet prints today and what do you think his second toe is just like the Kaufman’s. Eleanor is going to have the nurse make a set of foot prints for you so I suppose you will soon be looking at them yourself. The baby was born at 2:20 Sunday afternoon.

I sent Andrew down stairs to telephone to the folks at home and they were all thrilled about the way things came out. I had planned that we would call your mother and have her with us but as we left in the middle of the night and it seemed such a rush case I didn’t get to call her until then. Eleanor said she thought that would be better as she would worry and we thought we would call her when it was all over.

Well they finally wheeled Eleanor’s bed out of the delivery room and as soon as I could I went in to see her. She was pretty sick and they had given her gas for an anesthetic. It was some time before she knew what it was all about. Andrew went home and called your Mother to come down to the hospital. In just a few minutes she was there and she stayed with El while I went back home with your Dad. I was just about famished by that time as there was no place to get a bite to eat and it was a long hard day.

You can be real proud of your little boy--did I say little--I meant big boy. I filled out the announcement cards and mailed them right away. Will enclose one for you I think they are real cute.

Thursday morning we took Marie to the hospital for her baby and she came through fine. We got there about five o’clock in the morning and her baby was born at 8:36 AM. We thought yours was big but she topped it with a 8lbs and 9 oz boy. She would have to do that.

The nurses were very nice and have moved both girls into one room. It sure makes it nice for them to be together especially since neither one of you or Al can be there.

Since starting this letter I went to the hospital and when I went upstairs what do you suppose there is Ray Bhring and his wife leave it to Ray. He fixed it up with the head nurse so they could visit the girls. They only allow one visitor per patient a day.

They issue a white card for the Fathers and your mother and I are making good use of it. She is the father in the evening and I am the father in the afternoon. There always seems to be a different nurse on duty and they don’t know the difference between us.

Sure glad you newsletters keep coming as they keep Eleanor’s spirits up while she is in the hospital.

Your Dad is as proud as a peacock of his new grandson. We can all hardly wait until we can take him home. Wish you could be here for his first bath. That is really something. I thought Eleanor would be disappointed because she did not have a girl but she says she wouldn’t have anything else but what she has now, I got white christening outfits for all of the new babies but now but now Eleanor wants me to take them back and exchange hers and Marie’s for real boys outfits with rompers. Well back they go as soon as I can get around to it.

Al is trying to get a three day pass and is going to fly home this coming week end.

Well I guess I have told you everything, I tried t keep notes so that I could write you so you would know just what happened. Loads of love and I sure hope that the reports we are hearing on the air do not blow up and maybe you will be home again before you know it.

Loads of love and congratulations and many thanks for giving me such a fine grandson.

MOM



“Yea, I’m finally born and did I ever get a Great Mom, You should see her.”


13 Days Old




Believe it or not, I remember laying in this basket. I didn't like it because I couldn't see out of the sides and see my Mom.